This is a post I’ve been pondering for a while, but was hesitant as up to this point I haven’t necessarily practiced what I’m about to preach…and I’m sure a lot of people won’t like what I’m about to say, but I’ve decided it needs to be said.
I love social media (or at least the concept that is referred to as social media). I love what it does for communication. I love what it does for community building.
One of the major concepts of social media is transparency. Be yourself, act human, don’t lie or cover up anything, just be open about who you are and the things you do and your followers/readers/customers will appreciate you.
This concept has brought out the best in many, as the social web, namely twitter, has become a go-to location to find advice or answers when you’re facing a problem. Almost everyone is ready and willing to take time out of their day to help you when you need it. Everyone is supportive of (it seems like) everyone. It’s truly amazing…but is it truly transparent?
Are we replacing the “formal”, nontransparent restrictions of the past’s professional community with restrictions of nontransparent, kindness? Is this really who we are ?
Maybe the answer is yes, and I’m confident that given the career path chosen by those involved in this community, many of us are good people with good hearts. Is it a matter of bringing out the best in us? Or, are we becoming overly kind and complimentary just to appeal/conform to the community? Has the concept of sharing and contributing to the community committed us to sharing and contributing things that are not actually worthy of such promotion?
My point is that we preach transparency, but are we truly being transparent in our online communities? Is it a bad thing to be so complimentative and supportive of each other? It’s certainly better than the alternative, cut-throat business values. The problem is it’s laying a veil of falsities over the people and content we share, placing value on things that are not actually valuable.
There are a few people that this does not even apply to. The people that are able to be generous, sharing, helpful etc…but still call it as they see it. They’re not afraid to call issues or people out, respectfully, and keep true to their true, transparent personality.
Don’t replace honesty with a false concept of transparency.
Please…share your thoughts.